Who needs to be in a relationship?

**seli-chan** · 07-05-2009 11:28 PM

okay im super lonely i want to like someone more than juss a friend but i haven't found the right guy or girl yet...like do you ever feel like your super lonely when your single? thats how i feel...i need love too ya know xD but seriously i did like sumone b4 but he was a jerk so i didn't go out with him so i feel very lonely..how do you guys feel when you wanna be in a relationship? do ya feel like me? what do you do when ur lonely and want someone special in ur life? I just want to love and be loved

**L- lawliet** · 07-05-2009 11:31 PM

I need a seme

**Asteria Euphrasia** · 07-06-2009 09:08 AM

Look its hard for everyone to find someone, what you need to do is keep telling yourself to keep pushing on....the person I am currently madly in love with is with someone and I have to tell myself that she's still my best friend, if I find a girl to be with then she will root me on 100% and that's why i'm still laughing and joking today

Just keep saying that beyond the horizen of the next day there could be someone new waiting for you with open arms. Telling you that it's okay if no one accepts you because this person will always accept you.

Until then I am currently looking for a seme/uke to be with, while my friends and still love of my beating heart back me up. They don't seem to care that i'm a lesbian. They love me either way >.> I just had to hit my head a few times last night to realize they loved me.

Hope this helps you =P

**DeviantGhost** · 07-06-2009 09:10 AM

When I was a teen I used to dream of romantic relationships and believe in love until I had my first date and my dreams got shattered and got worse when I continued to date guys, be in relationships and know more the opposite sex.

After my last break up, which was 5 years ago, I didn't try to start a relationship again, I got too scared to get hurt again.

However I know how you feel. I got depressed several times in the past because of the feeling of loneliness, however you still can enjoy life being single, if you have friends, family, hobbies, you can. I do nowadays.

**seli-chan** · 07-06-2009 08:53 PM

thanks guys this is a really big help =D

**Vamphire** · 03-13-2010 03:53 PM

Originally Posted by Naruchu~

thanks guys this is a really big help =D

Hey, can I ask you how you've been recently?

For me, I feel lonely occasionally, though like Izzy said, I'm waiting to find the perfect someone for me. But until then, I'm taking it one day at a time.

**Cherry Dynamite** · 03-13-2010 04:14 PM

Sometimes I find myself thinking I want to be in a relationship, but then I remember all the drama I'm surrounded with because of friends in relationships and I remember why I like being single.

I'm not any sort of hopeless romantic. I don't need a relationship to be happy. I'm good with my friends and myself. After all, your life if going to suck if you can't make yourself happy. Being dependent on others for happiness is a road to a miserable life.

**Vamphire** · 03-13-2010 04:39 PM

Originally Posted by Cherry Dynamite

Sometimes I find myself thinking I want to be in a relationship, but then I remember all the drama I'm surrounded with because of friends in relationships and I remember why I like being single.

I'm not any sort of hopeless romantic. I don't need a relationship to be happy. I'm good with my friends and myself. After all, your life if going to suck if you can't make yourself happy. Being dependent on others for happiness is a road to a miserable life.

I can agree with this, but then again there's something nice about being happy with someone else. You don't have to be entirely dependent on someone else when you're in a relationship. I mean, everyone's relationships are different, and I think the type of relationships you and I will like best would be with people that can respect our need for privacy and time for ourselves yet be there when we need them.

**DeviantGhost** · 03-14-2010 04:28 AM

I didn't know if I wanted a relationship, I haven't been into one since 2004.

There is a guy who I like however, he used to ask me for a date lots of times in the past and I always refused.

Then on Friday I wanted to tell him that I was thinking about being more than just friends, but didn't have time to open my mouth because he started saying that he would like a relationship but he has a lot of things to fix in his life, and I responded with: a man and a woman can be great friends too.

Pfftt it's always like this, when I make up my mind, or there is someone that I like everything gets screwed, and there are guys who like me, but I don't like them, it seems I am destinied to be a spinster ppfftt.

**El Niño** · 03-14-2010 11:21 AM

Originally Posted by Cherry Dynamite

Sometimes I find myself thinking I want to be in a relationship, but then I remember all the drama I'm surrounded with because of friends in relationships and I remember why I like being single.

I'm not any sort of hopeless romantic. I don't need a relationship to be happy. I'm good with my friends and myself. After all, your life if going to suck if you can't make yourself happy. Being dependent on others for happiness is a road to a miserable life.

Amen.

And also, This topic makes me gag.

It's full of desperate girls complaining about not having a lover. It makes me sick.